

From our childhood onwards we learn to behave in a certain way, we want to do our best for others and belong. We are so busy adapting that we often lose sight of who we really are. While your authenticity is your strength, it makes you unique and special, and you can be of added value. In my work I guide you in your transformation to rediscover who you are at your core, your strength and essence to (again) be the leader of your life.
About Emily
I am Emily, an explorer of both the world outside me and the world within me. I live with my cat Lucifer in the Jordaan in Amsterdam. A place that sounds beautiful and which it is; it breathes liveliness and has character. But I'm also a nature person, so every year I think I'm going to move somewhere in the middle of nowhere and enjoy the birds and the bees. In the meantime I travel around the world to enjoy the overwhelming nature or discover new cultures.
And discovering the world within myself? That's also something I've been working on for a long time, and maybe you recognize it. Every time you think you're there, something new pops up. And that is not surprising, behaviors and patterns are often deeply rooted, just like the trauma of yourself or generations before you that have unconsciously passed it on.
Back to your essence
​As humans, we are all part of different systems/ constellations, such as family, work or friends. These systems influence our behavior both consciously and unconsciously. That often makes it difficult to change these patterns.
During our session(s) we look at the patterns and beliefs you have. I let you reconnect with everything that is already within you, your light and your shadow, your masculine and feminine energy, your head and heart. By being open and curious about everything there is, you reconnect with your essence. Without judgment, but loving with compassion and curiosity.
We work based on the following principles:

Open
We allow and welcome every part of you. Your beautiful sides and your dark sides. Which parts of yourself do you not yet dare to look at or do you prefer to push away? What keeps screaming for attention? You discover where you cannot fully embrace yourself and how you can see all parts of yourself as strengths and use them so that they work for you instead of against you.

Dis-cover
Of yourself. It's like going on a date with yourself for the first time. Discover who you are in your essence, what drives you, what your personal strength is. You work with everything that is already there: you learn to know, recognize and set into motion your authentic self so that you can live life powerfully. You will discover your own wisdom and experience the potential that is created within you when you connect your head and heart. You turn this vulnerability into your strength. This leads to focus on what really matters. So that you can live from energy and authenticity.

Consciousness
Of who you are in your essence. We walk the path from becoming aware of your own thoughts, patterns, beliefs and your system of origin to fully seeing and embracing yourself. Be consciously present in this life by taking control back into your own hands and not being distracted by the stories you keep telling yourself about why you are not moving forward.
The things I can guide you in
I am there for anyone who is ready to dive deeply into patterns and behavior that no longer serves them, who wants to dis-cover who they are, what their strength is and take full lead in their life. I offer different types of (coaching) sessions and programs for private individuals and businesses.
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Systemic coaching with horses
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Team development
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Leadership
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Coaching with horses for children
Deep Dive trail
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Burn-out
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Human Design
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