Systemic coaching
with horses
We all know situations in which you feel like you keep walking in circles, not living your own life, not knowing what step to take or where certain behavior comes from.
Systemic work is based on three basic principles. Systems function on these three basic principles, namely: Bonding (everyone has the right to a place), Order (every place has a ranking in relation to each other) and Give & Take (which must be in balance).
Do you want to experience more harmony and connection with yourself and others?
Does it feel like you're not living your own life?
Do you have trouble finding the balance between giving and receiving?
Do you feel like you have to save or help others, otherwise they won't get there?
During a 1:1 coaching session we work with the herd, the environment and any attributes or human representatives that symbolize certain people, themes or steps that you can take to unravel where the core of your question lies. These questions can be of different nature.Think of:
Life issues
Focused on a specific (life) issue such as increasing your self-confidence, learning to set boundaries, not feeling flow in your life, not daring or not being able to make choices.
Personal leadership
You will dis-cover how you can take control of your own life. You become aware of your own drive, talents and pitfalls, know how to manage yourself and what it takes to realize your goals. It helps you make conscious and considered choices and give direction to your own life.
Family constellations
Do you have the feeling that you keep encountering the same things, such as not feeling heard or seen, people crossing your boundaries? Do you want to live more from your own strength? Or do you want to prevent your children from encountering the same things as you?
During horse coaching with representatives, discover which patterns and dynamics you unconsciously maintain that prevent you from fully living your life. With a family constellation we look together at your undercurrent, or at dynamics that are hidden and that have an unconscious effect on you. Without knowing it, you carry things from at least 7 generations; beliefs, secrets, victimhood and perpetrators, not speaking out, etc. This has an effect on your daily life and actions, on your upstream. A constellation provides clarity about your place in a group (family, work, sports team, etc.) and how you relate to others within that group.
Work with or without representatives?
For all questions we can work with just the horses or the combination of horses and representatives. The power of working with representatives is that they can feel and express what is going on in the role they take on.
Representatives make visible or tangible what their reaction is to their role and actions that are taken, words that are spoken and thus provide a lot of information about the dynamics within the system.
In a setup with horses and representatives, it becomes clear where there is a problem and, very simply put, during a setup we actually ensure that the balance in the three basic principles is restored, allowing relaxation in the system and therefore also in you.
If you would like more information about this, you can book an intake interview. If you are already sure, choose a session with or without representatives below.
If you would like to participate as a representative for a small fee to experience what it is like, please register. I will contact you as soon as I need representatives.
I also organize days for smaller groups, max. 8 people for systemic coaching or theme days, max. 4 people for experiencing your Human Design. For systemic coaching or theme days you can also only register as a representative. Look here for the most current events .
A session can help you to:
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be more confident
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learn to set your boundaries better
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feel the connection with your body (again).
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reduce stress complaints
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setting goals
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experience where your blockages are
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make you feel part of the bigger picture (again).
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gain insights into your family system
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feel how powerful you are
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and much more