Way of working
My vision
I see us as whole(ness): head, heart, body and soul. Together they make you who you are. I coach you on who you are. I believe in the power of authenticity and vulnerability. Being allowed to be yourself completely. If you learn to live from your authenticity, people around you will feel this, but also you yourself. Often your body already gives signals and if you ignore them they just come back again and again. Until you start looking at it and creating space to be with it for a moment, to look at it fully and feel it through. Not to make it bigger than it is, but to give it the attention it deserves. To learn from it and transform it into a force that helps you further in your personal leadership.
With my gentle and incisive guidance, and my lightness and clarity, I create a safe bed to re-discover yourself. To become aware of who you really are, under all those layers and masks, to see your essence and your power, and to transform into the powerful person you have always been.
What is important to know
(Personal) attention is my number one way of working.
As a projector, I can't help but really focus on you, through all the layers and masks. I really see you for who you are! If you want to work with me, I have attention for you and I ask the same from you. Not that you have to come with bunches of flowers and presents, no, it's a little different.
I want to see and get to know YOU. When I ask you "How are you doing?" it is a sincere question and you don't get away with "Fine, and you? You better know. After all, how you are doing determines how you are in your day and what you can or cannot do.
Work and private life cannot be separated, they are connected. At least: if you show yourself everywhere and don't put on any masks. Because that is exactly what I mean: not keeping up appearances or taking on a role. I want YOU, pure, open and honest. You get me, completely, and I want you completely: the good, the bad and the ugly, the emotions, the happiness and the joy. And all of it in between. After all, that's where the magic is.
My clients describe me as authentic, reliable, open and warm. I am someone who is a good listener and offers space to be yourself completely. My approach is both gentle and powerful, and I am ready to guide you in your inner journey.
What to expect from a session?
During our session(s) I allow you to reconnect with all that is already within you, your light and your shadow, your masculine and feminine energy. We look at patterns and beliefs that no longer serve you. We do this by, among other things, traveling through the elements within yourself. The elements are the four primal principles that make up everything. They are the constituents of the reality around us, of nature, of which we are also a part. Earth, water, air and fire, or also called matter, feeling, reason and action.
We too are composed of these principles, on different levels, physically, mentally, emotionally and spiritually. The elements are also divided into male and female elements, or "active" and "passive" elements, giving and receiving. The masculine are fire and air, the feminine are water and earth. However, we all have the four elements within us.
As human beings, we need the light to feel like a human being.
Without inner and outer light, we cannot live. The light can also be called fire. We all need warmth and love. Our inner fire we must also learn to control and rekindle in time. There must be balance.
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The air connects us humans on this earth, we all breathe the same air.
Air does not belong to one country but connects all countries and people on earth to and with each other.Air we do not see, we experience it like the wind that blows.Air is vital.The first breath and the last exhalation are closely connected, they bring and take life.
Most of the earth is covered with water, a thin veil of water vapor surrounds it. Water moves, sprays against gravity into the air, flows, evaporates, freezes.
As human beings, we consist of 80% water.
The earth feeds and carries us, only on earth can we as humans live our lives.
The elements are perceived through multiple senses, we can see them all, but also smell and especially feel them.
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Earth
Your grounding, structure, firmness and strength. Finding safety within yourself. Coming home to yourself and being senang with the not-knowing. Seeing your essence and experiencing who you are without the guidance or expectations of others.
Fire
Your passion and zest for life. The element of will, life force, decisiveness and action. Here lies your strength, but also your pitfall. Fire has a changing nature. Wherever there is fire - big or small - there is a change in the way energy is captured. Fire does not allow itself to be constrained. Fire determines for itself what it does. Here it is about losing your innocence and coming to take responsibility over your life.
Water
Your emotions and feelings. Water represents sensitivity, intuition, imagination, creativity. It always flows to the lowest point, through the path of least resistance.
What is moving in you? You don't avoid looking at your emotions and confronting mirrors. You purge from that which does not belong to you. You transform into who you really are; you jump into the deep end.
Air
Your thinking, reasoning and new ideas.
The place of creative power, a new beginning. It frees us and creates space. Clarity and the guiding vision of your life. The direction of pure life without any restraint. How do you want to live your life?
What is moving in you? You don't shy away from looking at your emotions and confronting mirrors. You purge from that which does not belong to you. You transform into who you really are, you jump into the deep end.